Mentally Defected Love

By all means in this blog I'm not claiming to be an expert on he subject of love and relationships. However, I feel as I've gained some experience I have also gained some insight into some of the absurdities that take place in SOME relationships. 

I am not cynical nor bitter. I think relationships are wonderful, but I also think you need to be realistic about relationships. The world unfortunately is not a Disney movie, therefore trying to replicate a relationship of a Disney couple is rather moronic...Let me give you an example of a real life situation.

I knew this person (and no this is not me!) who was dating this guy for a months. They broke up for reasons I do not know, and a week later this guy ended up meeting this girl one day and they fell in love that same day and started going out. Fine, thats a little quick, but whatever. What makes this even more odd is the day after they first met they were writing stuff on each others facebook walls such as  

"I love Sally with all of my heart and we will share our love together for all our days and into forever in Gods beautiful heaven awaiting us one day. "

and

"I am so glad I met you yesterday.I love you so much you are everything to me, you ,made all my dreams come true and we had the most magical day of our lives. You are my life and all I want to do is make you happy and be there for you for the rest of my life and into eternity."



What the freaking hell? Are you serious? These people are in their mid to late twenties acting like they are on some episode of Barney the Dinosaur. This is NOT reality people. I find it a smack in the face actually to real relationships or what I consider real relationships. Love takes time it takes commitment, loyalty, honesty, intimacy. It isn't something that just magically appears because the fairy godmother puts some bibbity bobbity boo spell on you. Again, this wasn't my boyfriend, though I'm sure I'm making it sound like it because this just aggravates me. I guess I'm angry for my friend who obviously has to deal with this BS. 

I think people have this messed up concept on love or mine is just different. Loving someone to me isn't going buying someone flowers and expensive jewelry, professing your love for someone in a football stadium, or writing vomit worthy notes to people about frolicking in heaven with the Disney Princesses and Bambi's dead mother. Love is strong bond between two people where you are both secure in the fact in what your feelings are for each other. Sure gifts are nice but being able to share special private moments with each other is far more powerful than any corny message or material item. Maybe I'm more of a private person, but I don't need to go around shoving my love for someone in everyone else's face, it doesn't mean I'm any less in love or care for someone less. I don't know, but these people I'm talking about above seriously need to get out of the Land of Delusion. I know it's not my business but honesty if you are in your mid to late twenties you should cut out the pixie dust and try and develop a realistic relationship. 



Rant over.